Remember the sage advice of Dale
Carnegie:
"There is only one way under high heaven
to
get anybody to do anything, just one way,
and
that is by making the other person Want To Do
It!
Remember, there is no other way!!
When you show
a man what he wants, he will move
heaven and earth
to get it."
There is also one important yet intangible thing
everybody
wants and that is APPRECIATION. Being
appreciated and
complimented makes a person feel
Important.
When you feel important you feel needed and wanted
and
this gives you a whole lot of reason for
existence.
How do you give somebody the feeling of
importance?
Say IT, Act IT - just give it freely, honestly,
and wholeheartly.
Appreciation may not necessarily be in words. A
smile and/or
a pat would suffice and they can come from both
the giver and
the recipient. The giver shows his feelings of
being appreciated.
The recipient his feelings of appreciation for the
gift.
Somehow magic or chemistry takes place. It's a
feeling both
parties will enjoy happening many times
over!
For the next 30 days treat everyone you come in
contact as the
most important person on earth...If you will do
this for 30 days,
you will do it for the rest of your
life.
Let go of the past - expect increased good in the
future...
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